Phases of relationships
There are many phases if one follows can achieve a beautiful bond between the two.
| 1. | Courtship- The main confront at this phase is for each person to allow themselves to become exposed or to take risk by disclosing about their relation to others. |
| 2. | Honeymoon-At this time the relation is joyful and steady. Couples enjoy every moment’s together .They try to express their emotions, love and feeling of sexuality between each other. |
| 3. | Separation-Some separation or differences starts to come out between the partners .They try to live as individual and show less interest over each other. It’s a challenge for the person how to handle the situation and should look into why there is decrease in the intensity of relationship and also view upon whether his/her partner getting stubborn, selfish, uncaring or introverted. |
| 4. | Dispute-This is very common as you feel disheartened with your partner and tend to look after their negativities instead of their positivity. Due to this at last couples lose their faith on each other and also loses hope of their future and thinks that they are fallen out of love. |
| 5. | Mutual Interdependences-To make relation sound strong couples should realize their mistakes during their prevailing course of relation and should think once again for their future and also become conscious about their mutual interdependences. They should abide their healthy relationship without showing any anxious behavior. |
Observing the faithfulness of the partner –There are preference when it comes to you while you dealing with your cheating. First option is to simply ignore it without confronting him/her or second one is to make your partner realize how much you love him/her and also make him/her feel that you is the only person in his/her life. The true triumph in a relationship is to show much you love or adore your partner. If some circumstances prevail where you think that something getting wrong or moving away from your path you should not base your decision to your friends or relatives, it’s up to you how you can act to that situation. None of the relationships are faultless but it’s very much wrong to blame all faults to your partner. You just seek that your loyalty belongs to you only; it needs how you can reflect it to your partner. Relationships are not between two couples or wife and husband; relationships are also between parents and their child.
The child as well as parents should understand their role and job to have a delightful relationship and try to make each other happy and calm. Parents should be protective but they should not show too much over shielding effect that child loses his confident and feel insecure in front of others. Keeping proper sense of humor between children and parents construct healthy relations. When you deal with your parents, happiness and laughter can be act as life saver. But when you are mature enough (age more than twenty years) you should also spend some time with your parents to make them feel glad .You should give equal respect to your parents as you were use to give at your childhood period because you should realize that whatever you are now; it is due to your parents love and efforts only.
Your some importance can make your parent’s life valuable and great full. The dictum of child’s life should be his honesty and frankness towards his parents and also how much he shows his love and affection. Never feel remorse if you done something wrong just be open and tell it all to your parents very clearly. Only your parents can lend their hand when you are in sorrow, trouble or any mourning situation because parents are the GOD’S ANGEL which make their protective covering over their child and show their full responsibility for attainment of their child’s success and to help them to achieve goal by providing all the resource at proper time intervals.
To sum up to keep the healthy relationship whether it’s between two couples or wife and husband or child and parents there should be true and pure love, affection. The relationship should not be for excitements or enjoyments but one should know how he/she can help if there is some troublesome with his/her partners. One should for all time show that he is always present their when the situation is opposite to them or something going wrong.